Eight-year-old Shina Adegbolu, a
basic three pupil of a primary school in Ikotun area of Lagos was taken
for treatment at the Igando General Hospital on July 5, 2015. But an
observant nurse knew something was wrong as soon as he saw the boy and
his injuries.
Shina’s 34-year-old father, Idris, took
him for treatment with the complaint that the boy fell down and
sustained an injury on his buttocks.
But the nurse tactically separated the
boy from his father and asked about the true cause of the extensive sore
that had developed on the boy’s buttocks.
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Shina
quietly explained that he had not been able to sit for about five days
since his father gave him a violent beating with a stick for stealing.
The nurse treated the boy but rather
than confront the father, she took down his address and phone number and
contacted a non-governmental organisation for action on the boy’s case.
When our correspondent tracked down the
man, he confirmed the boy’s story even though he tried to play down the
impact his beating had on his son.
“I only beat him once because he stole
N500. I don’t usually beat him and I was just angry that day. That was
why I beat him. The beating did not cause the sore. It was after he
could not sit down that his step-mother used warm water to treat the
buttocks and a tiny wound there developed into the sore,” Idris told our
correspondent.
A subdued, shy and gaunt Shina told our
correspondent that he was simply very hungry the day he took the money
because his father and step-mother refused to feed him.
“When my father started to look for the
money, I returned the N500. But he was angry and beat me till neighbours
came to drag me away from him. I could not sit when I went to school
and my teacher sent me home when I could not sit to write,” Shina said.
Neighbours at their Ikotun residence told Saturday PUNCH that Idris beat his son mercilessly regularly that they feared that he was going to kill him one day.
“Nobody said he should not discipline
his child but it is no longer punishment when you beat a child as if you
want to kill him,” one neighbour told our correspondent.
Cases of extreme corporal punishment in
the hands of parents in Nigeria may not be an entirely new phenomenon
but the recent rise in such deadly torture calls to question the laws
protecting children and the reasons parents have to resort to such
deadly means to discipline their children.
The United Nations Children’s Fund
explains that child abuse includes all forms of physical and emotional
ill-treatment, sexual abuse, neglect, and exploitation that result in
actual or potential harm to the child’s health, development or dignity.
According to a UNICEF report on violence
against children, on average, about six in 10 children worldwide
(almost 1 billion) between the ages of two and 14 are subjected to
physical (corporal) punishment by their caregivers on a regular basis,
many of which lead to death.
UNICEF says Nigeria had the highest
number of such deaths (due to intentional injuries) in 2012 with almost
13,000 deaths, followed by Brazil with approximately 11,000.
UNICEF agrees that reliable data on
violence against children in Nigeria is scarce “because violence is
often not reported as it occurs mostly within the context where it is
regarded as ‘normal’ such as within the family circle or behind the
privacy of homes.”
Deadly parents, frightening homefront
Idris maintained he was just trying to
discipline his son to make him a better person. But for little Shina,
that home is the most dreaded place in the world for him.
Our correspondent noticed the body
language between Shina and his father. It was clearly of a boy that was
terrified of the man he called father.
“My mummy is dead. I want to run away
because my daddy beats me too much. But I don’t know where to go,” Shina
told our correspondent out of the earshot of his father.
Idris was handed over to the police. But he was not charged to court.
He was made to write an undertaking that
he would never hurt the boy and any extreme punishment would land him
in bigger trouble.
“I am not a monster that they made me out to be. Is it wrong for one to punish his own child for wrongdoing?” he said.
Elsewhere in Lagos, a father fled home after nearly killing his daughter.
Thirty-seven-year-old Monsurat Kazeem
was crying when she told our correspondent about her ordeal and that of
her children in the hands of her 40-year-old husband, Kamoni.
“He has been acting like someone with a mental illness since he lost his job. Our lives have been hell,” she said.
But the problem in their house goes beyond just the maltreatment in the hands of Kamoni.
On July 7, 2015, vigilantes on a patrol
rescued their 12-year-old daughter Kafayat, in the middle of the night
as she hid in front of a shop at Oyingbo Market, Lagos.
The state in which the girl was found prompted the vigilantes to instantly rush the girl to the hospital.
She had been beaten brutally with a wire, leaving scary marks on the girl’s chest.
Kafayat said her father turned on her
when she intervened in a fight between him and her mother as he
brutalised her for playing lotto.
“My mother screamed for help as my daddy
beat her. She was shouting for help but the neighbours did not come
out. He was always beating her. But when I held his hand to stop, he
started to beat me also.
“He did not use his hands to beat me, he
used wire and I thought he was about to kill me. But after taking more
than 20 lashes, I was able to run away. I want mummy to take us back to
Ilorin. I am afraid of living with our father again.”
But Kafayat’s mother told a slightly different story.
She said, “Please, don’t think that I am
trying to cover up for my husband. The truth is losing his job has
affected him very much that he has become aggressive.
“I am a petty trader and whenever I go
out to hawk, he accuses me of having an affair. There was a time he was
arrested and sent to prison for something he did not do. I sold
everything I had for his legal defence. I had to resort to playing lotto
just to survive at the time.
“When he got back from prison, he
started to harass me for playing lotto. He is always suspicious about
everything I do. He always punishes the children but not up to
inflicting so much injury like he did on Kafayat. Kafayat sometimes
steals and that day, she did something wrong that angered her father. I
only came back from hawking to see that he had brutally beaten and
injured Kafayat and he was sorry for what he did.”
The police are looking for Kamoni presently as he has fled his home.
When our correspondent spoke with him on the phone, he was sobbing as he explained that his action was “the devil’s work.”
“Please, government should have mercy on
me. I was not in my right mind when I beat my daughter to that extent. I
was only afraid that they would lock me up; that’s why I ran away,”
Kamoni said.
But for Kafayat, the scar of such
violent treatment in the hands of her father is something she probably
would live to remember. When our correspondent spoke with Kamoni on the
phone, he was profusely apologetic.
“Please, I was only angry. I regret
everything I did now. I love my daughter. But my anger overwhelmed me
that day. I am willing to report myself to the government now. But
please, I don’t want to be locked up,” he said.
For children like this, the home, which
is supposed to provide the expected protection and warmth needed for
their balanced development is like a torture chamber.
A United Nations’ report on violence
against children states, “A basic assumption of the Convention on the
Rights of the Child, contained in its preamble, is that the family is
the natural environment for the growth and well-being of all its members
— and particularly children — thereby recognising that the family has
the greatest potential to protect children and provide for their
physical and emotional safety.
“The exposure of children to violence in
their homes on a frequent basis, usually through fights between parents
or between a mother and her partner, can severely affect a child’s
well-being, personal development and social interaction in childhood and
adulthood.”
The Nigerian Child Rights Acts 2003
expressly criminalises any form of punishment that harms a child either
physically or emotionally.
Section 11 of the CRA states, “(a) No
child shall be subjected to physical, mental or emotional injury, abuse,
neglect or maltreatment, including sexual abuse; or (b) subjected to
torture, inhuman or degrading treatment or punishment.”
But few parents seem to be aware that
beating their children to the point of inflicting deadly injuries on
them has become criminal in the country.
Ugly trend, frightening punishment
In May 2015, Ibrahim Bello, the father
of a 16-year-old secondary school student, Kafayat, inflicted severe
burn injury with a hot iron all over her body as punishment for leaving
her duty post in her mother’s shop to play with friends. He had
initially whipped her till the girl could not walk.
Around the same period, a five-year-old
boy, Olamilekan Mustapha, was beaten to a coma by his father, Adigun, at
Surulere area of Lagos, leaving gory looking stripes on the boy’s body
when he was rescued by sympathisers.
More shocking was the case of
40-year-old Surulere Raphael, who cut off one of his daughter’s fingers
in Jos, Plateau State on June 23, 2015 for stealing N1,500 and meat from
a pot of soup.
These cases attest to the ugly trend of
extreme punishment, which have turned homes to torture chambers for many
children in the country.
Our correspondent went in search of
Kafayat and Olamilekan to find out what has happened to them since their
cases reached the authorities.
Deaths from extreme punishment
The culture of corporal punishment goes
beyond the home front as many schools in the country still engage in
this form of correctional action.
But unfortunately, every year in the
last three years, one case or another has hit the consciousness of the
nation as showing the danger in corporal punishment.
In October 2012, a teacher in a school
in Awka, Anambra State, flogged a pupil, Chidinma Ukachukwu, to death
for failing to do her homework. In November 2013, a primary school
teacher in Ondo State flogged a female pupil, Elizabeth Wanogba, to
death for being stubborn in class. He beat her till she fainted and she
was pronounced dead in a hospital thereafter.
In one of the most alarming cases in
recent times, in February 2014, Chris Elvis, a computer accessory trader
in Lagos, padlocked the mouth of his son, Godrich, locked him up in the
room and beat him to death accusing him of being an ‘Ogbanje’ (an evil
child that dies and reincarnates repeatedly).
